5 Reasons why Ladies Need Good
Guy Friends
Written and posted
by: GT Igwe Chrisent
Sourced by: Dr.
Emmanuel Eze
Having done some research and
asking series of question why some girls prefer guys to girls as their close
friends, I’ve come to discover that ladies tend to be more comfortable when it
comes to issues regarding opposite sex. Asking my female friends Angel, Kelly,
Uju, Kamsi and others, they all preferred having guys as their close friends to
girls.
Kamsy’s view:
“Frankly speaking, I was sick and tired of
constant rivalry and problems between me and my female friends. Unfortunately,
I couldn’t share my feelings or indulge in confidences with them, because they
would spread my secrets in a quite short period of time to the whole world. My
decision to let male friends into my circle of contacts changed my life for the
better. It was like a breath of fresh air that helped me open up and changed my
mindset for growth, so guy friends are they best”.
Angel’s view
They still fill my life with
positivity, sincerity, joy and inspire me to be more creative and productive.
It seems to me that it’s easier to stay friends with males, because they’re
less judgmental of others. I’ve also noticed that guys don’t tend to undermine
or backstab each other in any way.
If you’re still hesitating,
whether to make male friends or not, you should try to weigh all pros and cons
of this friendship. I think that good guy friends will help you develop your
personality and become an all-rounded individuality. If you’re a little bit shy
by nature and have no concrete idea how to overcome the challenge of
communicating with the opposite gender, you shouldn’t run to extremes. I’m sure
that psychologist visits and various personal development courses will cost you
a lot of money. You can just make friends with a good guy and get rid of your
fears or uncertainty. I’d like to share my life experiences and prove you that
a true friendship between men and women is not nonsense.
1. Men are more sincere
It’s a huge mistake to fully
trust the human species, but most ladies find it incredibly difficult to keep
secrets to themselves. Their best male friend is the only person among their
friends who they truly trust. Ladies can entrust a guy their most secrets and
be sure that they will remain confidential regardless of everything.
From my research, I know that
most ladies are absolutely unable to keep secrets till the grave. I think that
every woman is a fan of drama. Their excessive talkativeness can make them let
the cat out of the bag unconsciously. I believe that men are more sincere and
frank with their feelings and emotions. ladies male friends never play double
games and prefer to tell me the truth. Sometimes this truth can be bitter and
unpleasant, but it’s better than sweet lies.
2. They have a good sense of humor
Sociable and free ladies have
always been fond of men’s humor, because their funny jokes can relax the
atmosphere and make me laugh regardless of everything. Every time they get into
awkward situations, male friends always try to lift their spirits. Guys jokes
are the best remedy for a lady. Unlike women, men try to distract ladies
attention from the problem and teach them to be more optimistic about
everything. I think that this quality makes men emotionally strong and
resistant to stress. Good humor is the choice of successful men. If you want to
be surrounded with positivity and good-humored people, you should get rid of
your stereotypes and agree that friendship between men and women is of great
importance.
3. You can explore the men’s nature
A man and a woman are two
absolutely different human beings. It seems they’re living in different
realities. There’s no doubt that every woman would like to understand males
better. The best way to explore the men’s nature is by making more male
friends. If you think that reading men’s magazines will help you study the
psychology of men, then you’re mistaken. Only everyday communication will
provide you a chance to understand their feelings, interests, values and
thoughts. Your male friend is the only one who can give a valuable advice on
how to win the affection of the man you’re in love with. This knowledge will
come in handy in the future. Psychologists state that those ladies who get
along better with guys have more chances to build long-lasting and romantic
relationships with their significant others.
4. They can solve your problems
It’s been proved that men have
a little bit another vision of the world. They’re inborn warriors who can
easily face and handle harsh realities of this difficult life. Unlike women,
they’re not afraid of challenges or risks, because the desire to win is running
through their veins. I think that every lady needs a true guy friend ready to
lend his shoulder in a difficult time. Male friends won’t wait until your break
into tears and become disheartened. They’ll move the mountains to help you find
the best solution to various problems.
Furthermore, their high degree
of personal initiative gives you new opportunities and chances to develop, grow
and win together. But it doesn’t mean that you should make male friends just
for personal or business purposes.
Highly intelligent men have
good mental and life skills. They can answer all questions you’ve always been
interested in. These quality chats can significantly boost your self-confidence
and make you more mature.
5. It will increase your self-esteem
Regular communication with male
friends will make you more attractive, confident and emancipated. If you want
to be a successful woman, you should learn how to build and keep up both
friendship and diplomatic relationships with men and women.
When a lady gets acquainted with
a guy, it’s a real tomboy shit. Years of communication with guy’s helps ladies
turn into a real woman. Guys changes ladies mindset and taught to dress up and
behave like a lady. Now I can state with assurance that male friends are
wonderful teachers. They fill the lives of women with bright colors.
No matter how you slice it,
friendship between women and men has numerous advantages and disadvantages. If
you’re going to make male friends you should listen to your heart and intuition
to make sure that your intentions are pure. You should always keep in mind that
no strings attached sex will break your true friendship into pieces at once.
Moreover, already engaged or
married ladies should set priorities and try to behave correctly to avoid
conflicts with their significant others. I hope this article will help you open
up and break your stereotypes that create at first glance insurmountable
barriers and limitations in your life. Have you ever made friends with good
guys? Do you find this friendship real and profitable?
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