This is Why
Most Ladies End Up Single For Life
9 Reasons
1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life because
of media exposure it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a
mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television
to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will
dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being
promoted on television channels?
2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores –just
because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the
role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that
promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the
unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages
everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you
expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more
headache and trouble than helper for himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded
men off -if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike
excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times
discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady
even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an
Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for marriage, try
always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and
serious-minded, except you are still living in your high school life and not
thinking towards marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every d!!k & Harry -No
man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and
laughing with less serious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge
you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date
or Are Dating -because your best friend married without contributing anything
to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that
way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also
add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding
value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good
counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending
him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that
only bring requests and problems to be solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a
husband when you still allow your clique of friends to be dictating which man
you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and
face the fact that those your best friends even though they cherish you,
wouldn’t want you to marry before them or to marry the best man?
7. You Give Everything Out During Dating -As a single lady
who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your
husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In
the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been
constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited
to: constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today,
a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good food
and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how
the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually
everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most
painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on
sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not
want you to remain his girlfriend for life?
8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look
sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to
appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than
attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines
who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high
school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy
and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of
their immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds
of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be
associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good
for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.
9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home
Upbringing -definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will
win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your
character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those
men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words,
do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways,
the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has
used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.
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